Restoration
Ministries (RM) operates with the help of faithful volunteers. Each person
possesses conviction to see the end of domestic sex trafficking and to offer
God’s love to survivors. We offer their stories so you can understand the
passion behind this work and get glimpse of God’s faithfulness in this ministry.
Name: Cindy Cha
How
did you become aware of domestic sex trafficking (DST)?
I became aware of domestic sex trafficking when I was
approached to lead my small group on a local mission trip program (called “Intencity”
started by my church). My friend who was on a staff at church’s mission
department had just learned of this org in DC called Restoration Ministries.
She told me about what the ministry does and asked if I would consider
partnering with this ministry for this trip.
This was also the very first time I ever heard of human trafficking
existing right here at home. Our group went through a very intense all-day
training and all of us took an entire day to digest the shocking information we
received. Until then, we never knew that these girls were being raped and sold
as commodities so young in age and this was actually happening right here in
the US.
What would you like people to know
about DST?
That it is a very deep, complex issue that is so intertwined with other social, economic issues within the society. Making the difference is not about running around hotels and streets for a few weeks looking to rescue victims, but about committed individuals who are willing to work alongside survivors to support and empower them wherever they’re at in the process. Prayer, preparation (education) and commitment are essential for being an effective advocate.
That it is a very deep, complex issue that is so intertwined with other social, economic issues within the society. Making the difference is not about running around hotels and streets for a few weeks looking to rescue victims, but about committed individuals who are willing to work alongside survivors to support and empower them wherever they’re at in the process. Prayer, preparation (education) and commitment are essential for being an effective advocate.
How long and in what capacity have you
supported RM?
I have been with RM for over 7 years now and I started
as the first batch of volunteers when Candace started the volunteer
mentoring program back in 2007. For few
years, I volunteered to work with the girls at the youth jail and psych
hospitals. Currently, I oversee the
Ambassadors of Restoration Program.
Please share a verse that encourages
your work as an advocate.
“My
grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
2 Corinthians 12:9
Tell a brief story that illustrates the
influence of RM in the lives of their clients.
I will never forget the very first time
that I met her at the youth
jail. She was only sweet 16. She described herself as worthless,
unlovable, and deserving of her pain. She asked for a
prayer. As we laid our hands on her in prayer, her body shook so hard with pain as she
cried. She had been prostituting herself
since she was 14, under the control of her pimp. Her family rejected her. Her only brother was close death from a drive-by
shooting. Her dad was in jail and she never really knew him.
God allowed our paths to meet through Restoration
Ministries’ program. This
young girl is smart and creative. Once she wrote a rap expressing her life and performed
it on a volunteer appreciation day. She gave me warm,
tight hugs every time I saw her. She stayed connected with RM and earned a GED and was accepted into a college with a full scholarship. But after only few weeks into her freshmen
year, before I was supposed to start as her mentor, she
has gone back to her pimp, and has not been
heard from again.
She was
the first of many girls I met through RM that followed with similar, horrifying
stories. I’m so grateful
that even though I have no idea where she is now, to this day I can still lift
her up in my prayers and place my hope in that she is in God’s hands. Because
of Restoration Ministries, such paths are still being crossed where these girls
have chance to share their stories and we can commit to praying for them. It is
the only faith-based organization in DC that offers commitment and building
relationship with these girls to journey together with them, with love and
compassion, to find the injustices and speak up on their behalf. I truly believe what we can do for these
girls is very limited in our own human abilities… but we can always place our
hope in Christ who will do His mighty work through us.
Name: Evan Orie
Age: 25
Occupation: Software Developer
Tell
us something about yourself: For the most part, I could be characterized as your
stereotypical geek. I like to play video games and really enjoy the fantasy
genre, be it movies, books, or board games (e.g. Lord of the Rings, Star Wars,
Magic: The Gathering). I am a cradle Catholic from a biracial family (my mother
is white, my father is black), which has given me a pretty unique perspective
on life in general. My spiritual life started to bud during my early years in
High School when my beliefs were first challenged. Since then, I have steadily
grown closer to the Lord, though my faith has definitely had its peaks and
valleys.
How
did you become aware of domestic sex trafficking (DST)?
The topic of sex
trafficking was, more or less, a tangential thought that came into my head
during my college years when I was struggling with the concept of Christian
sexuality. During that time, pornography was a huge weight on my shoulders that
I had kept secret from everyone I knew. However, when God finally helped me
climb out of that hole, He put a fire in my soul to be vocal about my experience
so that other men like me could hear my story and know that they aren’t alone.
This passion got me asking the question “Why is pornography so pervasive? What
gets these women into this industry?” From there, I had many conversations with
various women about the importance of self-worth and beauty in their lives. I
learned that many women who go into pornography or get caught up in DST are
people who have broken families and never had their thirst for true,
unconditional love satisfied.
What
motivates you to advocate for victims and survivors?
I view DST as a social
justice issue. Society has shown time and time again that it has no empathy for
these women and men. For some reason, it doesn’t matter why or how these people
became victims; the simple fact that they have been sex trafficked makes them
“tainted”. This is absolutely ridiculous and heartless. All people are God’s
children and deserve to be treated with respect and love. I advocate for
victims and survivors because others often shutdown their voices.
Share
your vision for creating awareness about this issue.
In my own life, I have
seen that the best way to spread awareness is through personal relationships.
While reading facts and statistics can be helpful, they often do not lead a
person to real empathy without a personal connection. During my time with
Restoration Ministries, I have learned that nearly everyone has a personal
story of their struggles with sexuality but we have all been conditioned to
keep our struggles secret (caveat: I recognize that sex is a private thing but
there are circumstances when we really do need to talk about it with others.)
If we can break this system of secrecy, then I think our hearts will be more
willing to feel true empathy.
How
long and in what capacity have you supported RM?
I
started getting involved with Restoration Ministries during the Summer of 2013.
Since then, I have filled two roles: I was a group leader of one of the
Ambassadors of Restoration. My group in D.C. was quite a diverse group. Our age
range spanned from Twenty-Somethings to Retired, included women and men, white
and black, and even various nationalities. This coming Fall, I will be leading
another group, which I very much look forward to hosting.I have also worked as
the Website Administrator for RM. I make updates to the site, set up online
fundraisers, and generally help out with anything computer related.
Please
share a verse that encourages your work as an advocate.
Matthew
25:31-46
“When
the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will
sit on his glorious throne. Before him will be gathered all the nations, and he
will separate people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from
the goats. And he will place the sheep on his right, but the goats on the left.
Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my
Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.
For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I
was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was
sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ Then the
righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed
you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and
welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison
and visit you?’ And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did
it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’
“Then
he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal
fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me no
food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, I was a stranger and you did not
welcome me, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not
visit me.’ Then they also will answer, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you
hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not
minister to you?’ Then he will answer them, saying, ‘Truly, I say to you, as
you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.’ And
these will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal
life.”