Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Restoration Ministries hosts their 5th Annual Benefit Concert!


On Friday, March 16, a diverse and vibrant crowd gathered at Ebenezers Coffeehouse to listen to the musical talents of Bethany and the Guitar and learn more about the programs and services provided by Restoration Ministries for survivors.  We had an amazing turnout and want to thank everyone who made the evening a success!


Restoration Ministries team members and board members


Bethany and the Guitar band members


Emcee Elizabeth Knox interviewing Founder and Director; Candace Wheeler
 and Caseworker; Megan Cesar


Tuesday, November 15, 2011

In the midst of darkness, an RM case worker sees glimmers of incredible Hope:

As a counselor in training I have always had hopeful aspirations of “changing lives”. It has always been my heart’s desire to be used by the Lord to bring hope and healing to the broken that He loves so much. What those of us in the helping professions often don’t consider is that in our attempt to change lives we will be radically changed ourselves.

At Restoration Ministries we go into the youth detention center and the psychiatric hospital each week and the girls share their lives with us. We are allowed the privilege to walk with them through their pain. As we meet them where they are each week they begin to let down their guard. They embrace us even with all our imperfections and over time relationships begin to form. We see the Lord touch their lives and as a result we are changed.

Through this process the Lord has radically shifted my view of life through my interactions with these girls. As I hear their stories of brokenness I am overwhelmed by such deep pain that only He can heal; but I am also witness to their hope, strength, and resiliency. I am amazed each week at how He is faithful to move in our midst. It is the seemingly small moments that have the greatest impact on me in this ministry.

My first day as I walked through six doors that slammed locked behind me at the youth detention center something deep within me shook. I entered the classroom and looked into the eyes of 8 young girls that sat sleepily in front of me and thought "they are just kids Lord, how can they be here?” They went on to share their hopes and dreams with us that day. They had such big dreams for their future; they wanted to travel, to be doctors, lawyers, counselors, and artists.

As I sat with one young lady during her craft she began to open up to me, “I want to change my life when I get out of here and I don’t want to end up back here” she said, “I want to be a counselor and to help people who have been through the pain I have been through”. She beamed from ear to ear as we continued to talk about her goals and I had the opportunity to speak God’s truth into her life. As group came to a close she hugged me tightly and thanked me for talking to her. I was overwhelmed with God’s love for her and began to get just a small glimpse of why we do what we do at RM.

In the past two months I have seen more than 80 different girls, each with a story to tell if someone would just take the time to listen. In September, we met Lisa* who cried as she shared with the group that she felt like she had no value.   Her father sexually abused her then stuffed her in a trash can filled with water to drown her.

In October, we met Daija* who shared that she was ashamed because her aunt tied her to a chair and made her watch pornography when she was 7 years old.  We also met Cassie* who had the entire group in tears as she shared about her former heroin addiction and how she wanted to change, but nobody in her life believed in her. Everyone from her parents to her judge told her she was nothing but a menace to society who could never be anything, but trouble. She sobbed as she screamed, “I just want to be loved is that too much to ask?”. The girls in group hugged her and we cried with her as we told her we loved her and about God’s love for her. The entire group asked for prayer that day. The stories could go on and on, they never get easier to hear, but they all impact us and cause us to look to the only ONE who can heal hurt this deep.

Perhaps the most impactful experience for me was my encounter with a 15 year old girl named Mariah*. After group one day Mariah was sharing her story with one of the other RM team members. She became overwhelmed by her pain and ran back into the classroom in tears. I sat next to her on the sofa and she fell into my arms. As she sobbed she whispered through her tears “it’s not my fault, I’m scared and I don’t want to die”. When I asked her why she feared for her life she was too overwhelmed to share, so I asked her if I could pray for her. I held her in my arms and prayed over her until she was calm enough to talk. She went on to share with me that she had been forced to have sex, beaten, and held at gun point several times when she ran away from home and she didn’t feel safe going back. In the past month we have continued to work together both in group and on an individual basis. I have seen tremendous progress. As she continues to share her story with me, God brings opportunities for me to share His love and His plan for her life. In addition to talking about her story, we have worked on coping skills for her anxiety and goal setting for the future.  However, most importantly she agreed to let me share her story with her social worker so that she can get the help she needs when she leaves the hospital. There is still tremendous healing that needs to take place, but the healing process has begun. God in His goodness has given me the grace to take part in that healing process even if only for a short time.

In this ministry stories like these are endless. Some people ask me if I get mad at God for the horrible things I hear or if I feel hopeless. The answer is no; I see the hope every day. We continue to show up and in turn God is faithful to show up as well. I have realized we may be the only love and truth some of these girls ever experience. Lives are changed one moment at a time as we continue to yield ourselves and allow ourselves to be used by God.

Written by M.C., posted by L.L.

Monday, October 24, 2011

2011 DC Stop Modern Slavery Walk

Several members of the RM team!

Starting the walk to the fantastic, upbeat drums!
Thank you to those of you who came out and supported Restoration Ministries at the 2011 DC SMS walk! It was a beautiful, crisp October morning and activists from all over the D.C. metro area were energetic as we joined other anti-human trafficking organizations to take a stand against modern day slavery.  Check out our album on Facebook to see more pictures: http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.265087550193573.55121.123643591004637&type=1  

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

DC Stop Modern Slavery Walk - This Saturday!



Join us this Upcoming Saturday, October 22, 2011 for the D.C. Stop Modern Slavery Walk.  Join hundreds of other advocates against modern slavery and human trafficking as we walk on the mall taking a stand against injustice.  Sign up at: http://www.kintera.org/faf/home/default.asp?ievent=482690 and join the Restoration Ministries team. 


From the event website: The event will include a 5K walk, anti-trafficking resource fair, luminary speakers, and incredible musical performances.


Schedule:

8:00 - 9:00 am - Check-in
9:00 am - Walk Begins 
10:15 am - Performers, Speakers & Information Fair Begins
1:00 pm - Event Ends
How:
All participants must register to walk.  Children 13 and under can participate for free, but must also register (required by the National Park Service).
 
Length of Walk:
5K (3.1 miles) 
There is also an alternate .5 mile walk around the pond by the family activity area.
 
Where:
National Mall - Constitution Gardens
Constitution Avenue NW and 20th St NW Washington DC
 

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Celebrating 8 years of service, Restoration Ministries hosts the annual Esperanza Award Banquet

Dr. Benjamin Keyes receiving the Esperanza Award and Candace Wheeler (Founder and Director of Restoration Ministries)

On Friday, September 23, 2011, Restoration Ministries held their annual fall banquet at the Fairfax Country Club.  Supporters and advocates gathered together to celebrate Restoration Ministries' 8 years of service.  Dr. Benjamin Keyes, Director of Regent's Universities Center for Trauma Studies was awarded this year's Esperanza (Hope) Award for his development of the HEART therapeutic model in working with survivors of trauma.  Good food and good times were had by all!  Thank you to everyone who helped make this event a success!

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Please Join Us for the 2011 Esperanza Awards!

Restoration Ministries Annual Celebration


Friday, September 23, 2011
Reception at 6:00 pm
Dinner 6:30 - 8:30 pm
Country Club of Fairfax
5110 Ox Rd.
Fairfax, VA 22030


Honoree and Keynote Speaker Dr. Benjamin Keyes
Ph D, Ed. D., LPC
Author of HEART, Healing Emotional Affective Responses to Trauma; clinical application
Regent University, School of Psychology and Counseling


Cost: $100 for Individual Ticket
RSVP by: Tuesday, September 20, 2011
For more information email: info@restorationministriesdc.org

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Ambassadors of Restoration


Restoration Ministries is pleased to announce the launch the Ambassadors of Restoration Program, a non-direct service opportunity for students, small groups and churches from all over the United States to advocate for the survivors of domestic sex trafficking. Ambassadors will have the opportunity to learn about the issue for themselves as well as raise awareness in their communities.

For more information about how you can become and Ambassador of Restoration, please contact Tanya at tanya@restorationministriesdc.org

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

International Christian Alliance on Prostitution 2011 Conference

“Liminality”.  This new word struck a cord with me as I sat in a workshop during the 2011 International Christian Alliance on Prostitution (ICAP) Conference.  Liminality, I learned means “the place in-between”.  The workshop leader emphasized the importance of making space for the survivors you work with to ask questions, wrestle with the “Why’s?, and take some time in that place in-between their trauma and healing.  

This year’s conference was held at the serene Green Lake Conference Center in Green Lake, WI.  This lakeside retreat was perfect for direct service providers, those fighting on the front lines against human trafficking and prostitution around the globe.  It was a breath of fresh air for the individuals and organizations who give endless time, energy, and God-given passion to serve such a unique demographic.

40 countries were represented at this year’s conference.  Members from each country proudly sang worship in their own tongue, wore beautiful native dress, and came to share what the Lord is doing with survivors in other areas of the world.  In addition to offering therapeutic services, many of these organizations offer training in a new trade or skill.  They sold beautiful hand-made jewelry, scarves, purses, clothes and pieces of art.  

The speakers, Elsy Carvlho, Jill Briscoe, and Rhea Briscoe used their hearts for ministry to refresh and re-energize the ICAP community.  God spoke through these dynamic women to encourage everyone in attendance.

From the ICAP website: “The International Christian Alliance on Prostitution (ICAP) unites, equips and empowers practitioners and advocates who compassionately challenge injustice and offer freedom to people exploited by prostitution, including sex trafficking.”  To learn more, please visit www.ICAPglobal.org.

(L.L.)

Friday, May 6, 2011

Honor your Mom this Mother's Day with a gift to Restoration Ministries!

Celebrate your mother this Mother’s Day with a donation made in her honor to Restoration Ministries, a Christ-centered organization in Washington, DC that works directly with young women who have fallen victim to sex trafficking. Your gift will help to fund therapeutic programs for these young women.

If you would like to make a gift to Restoration Ministries, please visit our website at www.restorationministriesdc.org and click Donate. Or you may send checks made payable to Restoration Ministries to:
Restoration Ministries
PO Box 15674
Washington, DC 20003

Please use the certificate below to let the special woman in your life know how much she means to you.

Happy Mother’s Day!
To:
From:
In your honor, a gift of hope for sexually
exploited girls has been given to
Restoration Ministries.

This ministry seeks to bring wholeness to those caught
in the trap of sex trafficking.  The gift helps to fund
therapeutic programs from these young women.

Restoration Ministries
www.restorationministriesdc.org
 

Sunday, March 6, 2011

4th Annual RM Benefit Concert - a Huge Success!

Boris Arratia played beautifully during the Friday evening concert.

The MC for the evening was Maegan Stout of National Community Church.  Here she is interviewing Candace Wheeler, founder and director of RM and Lydia Lund, a case manager for RM.

Thank you to everyone who attended and contributed to the work of Restoration Ministries in the Washington D.C. area and beyond - we cannot do this work without you!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Please join us for our 4th Annual Benefit Concert at 7:30 pm on March 4 at Ebenezers Coffeehouse!


If you would like an e-copy of this poster, please email lydia@restorationministriesdc.org and we will get one to you.  Invite your friends and join us for an evening of music talent and giving to the important work of Restoration Ministries!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

CNN: Washington DC is used as the prime example

Sold on Craigslist: Critics say sex ad crackdown inadequate

Laurel, Maryland (CNN) -- On a late afternoon in early June, undercover police officers circled a one-story highway motel north of Washington. Inside was a 12-year-old girl who told her mother she was being forced to work as a prostitute.


According to her mother, the girl had started running away from home earlier this year. She found out her daughter was in the sex trade when she saw her in an adult online classified ad. The girl was advertising herself as a 24-year-old with a bogus name. The next time she ran away, her mother reported her missing.

Read the police press release

According to police and anti-trafficking advocates, the internet has now become the preferred way to sell women for sex. It's fast and convenient for the pimps and relatively safe for the men who pay for sex. Instead of trolling the streets, they can now look through hundreds of girls from the safety of their homes or hotels.

This time, the girl was lucky. She called home, and the call was traced to a Knight's Inn in Laurel, Maryland, where police were quickly on the scene. They rescued the girl and arrested a 42-year-old man and charged him with human trafficking.

Of all the sites that offer "adult services," Craigslist is one of the most popular. The online classified ad site is used regularly by about 50 million Americans for everything from buying used lawn furniture to finding a job or a roommate.

It's also used to sell sex, making Craigslist a prime target of a nationwide campaign against internet prostitution."Most of the young women we've worked with who have been exploited online talk about Craigslist," said Andrea Powell of the anti-trafficking group The FAIR Fund. "Craigslist is like the Wal-Mart of online sex trafficking right now in this country."

According to police who investigated the case of the missing 12-year-old, she had previously advertised on Craigslist under a false name and age. Craigslist declined to provide copies of the ad, citing privacy concerns.

Craigslist founder Craig Newmark defended his site, saying it is doing more than any other site that hosts adult ads to help filter out underage prostitutes and report them to police.

In 2008, under pressure from state prosecutors, the website raised the fees for posting adult services ads. In 2009, it started donating portions of the money generated by adult ads to charity. Craigslist also began to manually screen all ads and said it would refer any suspected underage girls to law enforcement.

That's not good enough for anti-trafficking activists. For all its reforms, they say Craigslist still has no way of knowing whether the females being sold are women or girls and is doing too little to help police identify and rescue children who are being sold for sex.

A CNN investigation of Craigslist's "adult services" section, which replaced "erotic services ads" two years ago, counted more than 7,000 ads in a single day. Many offered thinly veiled "services" for anything from $50 for a half hour to $400 an hour.

Many of the ads had photographs attached, and in many of those it was difficult to tell whether the female was an adult or a minor. Ads with words suggestive of youth, like "young" and "fresh," received a flood of responses from men who clearly expected sex in exchange for money.

One 20-year-old said it's the easiest and cheapest way to get customers.

A 20-year-old identified only as "Jessica" works out of low-rent hotels on Washington's busy Interstate 95 corridor. She posts ads mid-morning for $10 and says she earns up to $250 from each man who answers and shows up. She told CNN her "man" -- her pimp -- was good to her, but that the vast majority of the females who post ads are run by pimps who force them to have sex with as many as a dozen men a day.

She said many of the prostitutes give everything they earn directly to the pimps. If they don't, they're beaten.

"Girls are called 'yes bitches' and 'no bitches.' Yes bitches are what the pimps want," Jessica said after applying makeup to cover bruising on her face. "My advice is if you're doing this to be a yes bitch. Otherwise, you're going to have a very hard time."

Just how many of the ads include children is extremely difficult to establish, but many of the photos that accompany the ads on Craigslist are questionable.

A classified posted alongside Jessica's ad in the Washington market showed an African-American woman in her underwear offering herself for $250 an hour. Like dozens of other pictures posted the same week, her face appeared very young.

According to internet research firm the AIM Group, Craigslist this year is expected to earn a third of its revenue -- more than $36 million -- from its adult services section alone.

AIM Group's summary report on Craigslist

Craigslist says any increased revenue is partly because it was required to charge more for adult ads under a 2008 agreement with government officials intended to curb the volume of online adult ads. But the amount it is earning has opened the website up to charges that it's profiting from the exploitation of women.

According to its own rules, Craigslist requires anyone using its adult services section to immediately report any suspicious ads to a national tip-line run by the Center for Missing and Exploited Children.

The head of Washington's Metropolitan Police anti-prostitution unit said Craigslist "never" reports suspicious ads to his department.

"It does bother us from a law enforcement perspective, because the problem is so rampant that you know to get a handle on it we need all the assistance we can get," Metropolitan police inspector Brian Bray said. "If they're notifying, I'm not sure if they're notifying the right people, because we're not getting a call."

Craigslist spokeswoman Susan MacTavish told CNN in an e-mail that of all the websites that offer adult services ads, Craigslist is the leader in pushing users to report any suspected violation. She said the site cooperates fully with law enforcement, and that fewer than one ad in 10,000 meets the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's guidelines for anti-trafficking action.

MacTavish also noted that Craigslist requires anyone posting an ad to give the website a phone number, which is verified as being real. She said that because Craigslist follows the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's guidelines, the percentage of ads in its adult services section that are in fact children is "effectively zero."

The head of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children said his group has recently started to get referrals from Craigslist, but that it has no direct say in how Craigslist determines what ads are worth reporting.

"We are not a part of their initial screening and review process, and don't see exactly what their screeners see or know how they make their determinations as to what is actionable and reportable," director Ernie Allen wrote in an e-mail to CNN. "We are now getting reports from them regarding suspected violations and that is a good thing. The key question is -- are they doing enough?"

To another national advocacy group, the Rebecca Project, there's only one answer to Craigslist's adult services dilemma: Shut it down.

The Rebecca Project has published open letters to Newmark from a former underage prostitute who says her pimp forced her to sell her body and used Craigslist to drum up customers.

"We hear this story every single day of girls who are being bought and sold, American girls who are being bought and sold through the internet," said Malika Saada Saar, executive director of the Rebecca Project.

Read Saada Saar's commentary on CNN.com

She believes many Americans are either unaware of just how many girls are being sold on sites like Craigslist or simply chose to ignore the problem.

"I think we have an easier time looking at these girls when they are in India or Thailand and being thoughtful or supportive of those girls," Sadaa Saar said. "But when those girls come from Southeast D.C., or Toledo, Ohio, or Atlanta, Georgia, we are challenged at being able to see them as victims. It's much easier to call them bad girls or girls acting out, as opposed to recognizing these are girls who are vulnerable, who are being raped and exploited


http://www.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/08/03/craigslist.sex.ads/index.html

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Feeling Powerless

"I had gotten word that one of the girls from the jail had been trafficked from out of state. I was praying all the way over to the jail because I hadn’t met her yet and wanted to make contact. This girl was in hysterics trying to find some reason for what had happened to her and what the next step was. Explaining what I did just didn’t seem good enough to help change the circumstances. I explained that I have no real power as far as decisions for her future were concerned, but yes I would be there to walk with her through it all. I left the jail feeling completely powerless.


The next day I went over to the jail to see her again as promised. She was crying with her knees to her chest rocking back and forth saying I want to go home. I asked her if she wanted a hug and she nodded; however, she did not reach her arms out to me. I wrapped my arms around her and prayed for her feeling a little bit of the burden she was carrying.

Over the course of last week the Lord worked in amazing ways. I kept asking Him, “What am I doing God that is actually changing her circumstances?” The answer He gave me: “You are changing everything…you are showing her My love.” I got a glimpse into how she felt powerless in her circumstances and I was able to emphasize knowing that I was journeying with her in this confusion. My ministry is a ministry of presence where I keep showing up day after day loving her, listening to her, laughing with her, and praying with her. After I went to court with her she told the other girls in the jail that court went well “because I was there”. She was bragging on me and wrapped her arms around me saying she loved me. She told me I’m the only one who listens to her and cares for her. There was my conformation. I just shook my head and smiled…thank you God…I needed that. I am right where you want me to be and God you are being glorified. Restoration Ministries gave her a gift last week that her mom told me she didn’t have, a bible, it was her first one.

Thank you God, for you are the one who saves and heals. It is a blessing feeling myself getting smaller because it is the weak He uses to proclaim His glory and spread forth His light."

Alysha Tagert

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Street Outreach

These are the girls we recently came in contact with during street outreach. Please read about this on Lloyd Wolf's photography blog. Thank you.
http://lloydwolfphoto.blogspot.com/2010/06/restoration-ministries-end-trafficking.html

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

DC SMS Walk

RM has a team! Please join us for the walk. Go to walk.stopmodernslavery.org to join us and help raise money for RM and the fight against modern day slavery happening here in Washington D.C. If you have any questions please call our office 202.544.1731. Thank you!

In addition, RIJI Green is having a fundraiser for the DC Stop Modern Slavery Walk. For the entire month of July, every Act Justly messenger bag you purchase, RIJI Green will donate $1 to the Walk.


These bags not only make great gifts for your friends and family, but also provide economic opportunities for survivors and people at risk of trafficking.
Check out the bags here: http://rijigreen.com/node/41

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

A Way to Get Involved

The DC Task Force on Human Trafficking is creating subcommittees and they are a great way for people to get involved. They are: Outreach/Awareness/Events 2. Training and 3. Communication. Start thinking about how and where you can serve. It is a great way to meet others who are interested in the movement and be involved in short-term projects instead of the long-term commitment that direct service requires. Individuals cannot join the TF but they can participated under RM.

For more information contact info@restorationministriesdc.org

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Secretary Clinton Announces Release of 2010 Trafficking in Persons Report

Article taken from: http://blogs.state.gov/index.php/site/entry/clinton_2010_tip_report

U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton announced the release of the 10th annual Trafficking in Persons Report on Monday, June 14, 2010 at 10:30 a.m. in the Benjamin Franklin Room at the Department of State. Secretary Clinton said:


"This report provides in-depth assessments and recommendations for 177 countries, some of whom are making great progress toward abolishing the illicit trade in human beings. Others are still doing too little to stem the tide. But behind these statistics on the pages are the struggles of real human beings, the tears of families who may never see their children again, the despair and indignity of those suffering under the worst forms of exploitation. And through this report we bear witness to their experience and commit ourselves to abolishing this horrible crime.

"Human trafficking crosses cultures and continents. I've met survivors of trafficking and their families, along with brave men and women in both the public and the private sector who have stood up against this terrible crime. All of us have a responsibility to bring this practice to an end. Survivors must be supported and their families aided and comforted, but we cannot turn our responsibility for doing that over to nongovernmental organizations or the faith community. Traffickers must be brought to justice. And we can't just blame international organized crime and rely on law enforcement to pursue them. It is everyone's responsibility. Businesses that knowingly profit or exhibit reckless disregard about their supply chains, governments that turn a blind eye or do not devote serious resources to addressing the problem, all of us have to speak out and act forcefully.

"Now, we talk often here in the State Department about shared responsibility. Indeed, it is a core principle of our foreign policy. So we have to ensure that our policies live up to our ideals. And that is why we have for the first time included the United States. As this report documents, cases of trafficking persons are found in our own communities. In some cases, foreign workers drawn by the hope of a better life in America are trapped by abusive employers. And there are Americans, unfortunately, who are held in sexual slavery. Some find themselves trapped through debt to work against their will in conditions of modern-day bondage. And this report sends a clear message to all of our countrymen and women: human trafficking is not someone else's problem. Involuntary servitude is not something we can ignore or hope doesn't exist in our own community.

"I'm very proud of the bipartisan commitment and leadership that the United States has shown on this issue over many years. For the Obama Administration, combating this crime is a top priority. And the United States funds 140 anti-trafficking programs in nearly 70 countries, as well as supporting 38 domestic task forces that bring state and local authorities together with NGOs like many represented in this room.

"It's been 10 years since the United Nations Trafficking in Persons Protocol was negotiated and the U.S. Trafficking Victims Protection Act was enacted, and I was very proud to have worked on both of those in a prior life sometime back. And under the paradigm of the three Ps -- prevention, protection, and prosecution -- and thanks in part to the facts and focus provided by this annual report, governments, law enforcement agencies, international organizations, and families are working more closely together than ever. Now we call for the fourth P -- partnership. And that is making a real difference. More countries are updating their laws and expanding enforcement, more criminals are facing prosecution, and more survivors are being helped back into a life of freedom.

"This report is a catalogue of tragedies that the world cannot continue to accept. But it is also a record that deserves praise and recognition because it exemplifies hope and action because hope without action cannot be our goal. We have to provide the hope that then leads to the action that changes the reality that we describe."

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

“What belongs to you but is used more by others?”

It was the typical start of a Sunday program, I had searched hard for some form of ice breaker or question to engage the girls at the detention center with when they first walked in. Though hoping for a better tie-in to the theme of our discussion that day, I settled with a riddle I had seen multiple places online. The girls filed in, they took their seats, they responded to our greetings. It was the first riddle I asked, a simple mind trick that questioned “What belongs to you but is used more by others?”. The answer is, “your name”. However, it was I who was tricked by the question when without missing a beat, two girls simultaneously responded with “your body”.
‘What belongs to you but is used more by others?’ ‘Your body’.

Their response hit me like a ton of bricks, the ease and rapidity of their reply solidified the reality that these girls have experienced life in a body that is used more by others but is suppose to belong to them. It’s typical to learn that the majority of the girls we work with have encountered sexual abuse at staggeringly young ages. We give them surveys about their sexual experiences to determine if they have experienced trafficking and we frequently are returned with the x’s and checks marked next to “yes” when asked “Has anyone ever made you have sex when you didn’t want to, either through physical violence, threats, or making you feel like you couldn’t say no?”. Right beneath the question there is a space to indicate at what age they first experienced said trauma, I’ve seen girls answer as young as 2 ½.

For these young women, I think about how they never had a chance to grow comfortably into their bodies. I reflect on my own coming of age as the teenagers they are now, and the discomfort, the uncertainty, the unfamiliarity with my physical self that naturally through time was resolved. I had the privilege to grow into who I am and the body God gave me, it is part of how I find my identity in him and how I learn to reconcile the flesh with the spirit. I think again about the true answer to the riddle, ‘your name’, and how much our names, though not chosen by us, define who we are. We are identified by our names, we are identified by our bodies. But the two young girls who have identified their bodies as belonging to others, much like all the women and girls in prostitution, are trapped in a body that others have taken so much from, and left little identity to be found. I wonder in hurt of the difficulties they face in trying to find their true identity and home in Christ, and pray that they relate and understand his broken body on the cross as the core of their identity, beyond any body that any one has misused.

There’s a brief pause after they first answer my question, I absorb the weight of their response in a painful private moment, and move on.

“Every human body has been given a new hope of belonging eternally to the God who created it. Thanks to the Incarnation, you can bring your body home” -Henri Nouwen

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

           




2010 DC Stop Modern Slavery Walk

The 2010 DC SMS Walk is an event organized by the community to raise awareness and funds for the fight against human trafficking. It includes a walk, speakers, information fair, art exhibit, and music concert. This is an opportunity to get together with elected officials, artists, luminaries, businesses, professional athletes, and the community to celebrate the cause and galvanize the movement!

When: Saturday, September 18th, 2010

Where: Constitution Gardens, which is the area next to the Lincoln Memorial.

Who: All are welcome!

PRE-REGISTER: Join the many others who have pre-registered for the walk. Click Here to pre-register. Once you pre-register, we will send you a reminder when the official registration website is online.

For questions and to get involved, please contact walk@stopmodernslavery.org.

Please join us for the walk to show your support for Restoration Ministries and the fight against human trafficking. A portion of the money raised goes to RM. More updates to come!


If you have any questions e-mail Alysha Tagert at alysha.tagert@gmail.com